Not about performance.
About connection.
Relational sex therapy for couples and polycules — grounded in the understanding that desire is shaped by safety, and safety is something you build together.
Many people come in thinking they want “better sex” or “spicier intimacy.”
What they’re often longing for is something quieter — and harder to name.
A sense of safety that allows vulnerablity
.Intimacy that fits who you are now, not who you used to be.
Because most of the time, the truth isn’t “we don’t want each other.”
It’s “we don’t know how to reach for each other safely anymore.”
Sex therapy here is relational work.
We’re not focused on techniques or performance.
We’re paying attention to what’s happening between you - because that’s what shapes desire.
In practice, that means:
Understanding desire as information, not a problem to solve
Slowing conversations down so sex can be talked about without pressure
Noticing patterns around initiation and avoidance — and what they protect
Rebuilding felt safety so vulnerability and desire have somewhere to land
At times, sessions may include psychoeducation around desire, nervous system responses, or relational dynamics.
But everything is tailored to your relationship — not something you're expected to fit into.
Desire doesn’t exist in a vacuum.
It’s a relational signal - shaped by emotional safety, communication, power dynamics, cultural messages, and unspoken agreements about what intimacy is supposed to look like.
Curious about sex therapy but not sure where to start?
The consultation is a space to talk it through, no-pressure.
Sex has become something you avoid, endure, or perform through.
One of you initiates and gets rejected while the other feels pressured and pulls away.
Physical intimacy is happening - but it doesn’t feel close.
Desire exists, but shame, anxiety, or resentment keeps getting in the way.
Silence around sex and pleasure was inherited — and you’re ready to do something different.
Talking about sex seems to make things worse, not better.
Sex therapy isn’t about going back to how things used to be.
It asks a more honest question:
What does intimacy need to become so it actually fits who we are now?
This work is for couples and polycules who are curious about desire without shame - and willing to be honest about what intimacy actually feels like right now.
You don't need to have it figure out.
You do need to be open to looking at what's happening, even when it's uncomfortable.
All partners must be emotionally safe to engage in joint therapy.
This practice does not offer individual therapy.
Sessions are private pay.
Intake Session
75 minutes
$300
Standard Session
60 minutes
$250
Extended Session
90 minutes
$400
Superbills available upon request for potential out-of-network reimbursement.
If you’re ready to approach intimacy differently
we can start there.
The consultation is a space to talk through what’s been happening around sex, desire, and connection — and what kind of support would actually help.
Schedule a consultationNo pressure to have the right words. Just a place to begin.