When you still love each other
but can’t reach each other.
Relational therapy for couples and polycules ready to understand what’s underneath the distance — and shift how you relate.
When couples say, “we need help communicating,” what they’re often saying is something quieter and heavier:
I don’t feel chosen anymore — and I’m scared this distance is becoming permanent.
You might still love each other.
You might still want closeness.
And yet, something in the way you relate keeps pulling you back into the same place — no matter how many conversations you've had.
In this work, we slow things down.
Not to analyze every word, but to actually see what’s happening between you.
We pay attention to the patterns you get pulled into. The cycles that show up again and again, even when you're trying to do something different.
That often looks like noticing:
- —who reaches and who pulls away
- —how conflict escalates - or disappears
- —what gets protected instead of spoken
We focus on:
Recognizing patterns without blame
Rebuilding emotional safety so honesty doesn’t feel dangerous
Taking accountability without shame
Practicing repair — not perfectly, but honestly
Sessions are conversation-based and responsive.
There’s no script to follow and no agenda to get right.
We work with what’s happening in the moment.
Not sure if couples therapy is the right fit?
The consultation is a free space to talk it through — no commitment required.
You’re working harder than your partner seems to be — and you’re exhausted.
Conflict leads to withdrawal, shutdown, or days of silence.
You still love each other, but don’t know how to find your way back to each other.
Cultural expectations around strength or sacrifice make vulnerability feel risky.
You’re afraid you’ve quietly crossed a line the relationship can’t come back from.
The ways you learned to survive kept you going - and now they're getting in the way of intimacy.
The real question underneath all of this is simple and terrifying:
Is it still possible to feel close, desired, and on the same team again?
This work says yes.
But it asks something in return: honesty, accountability, and the willingness to stay present - even when it feels easier to shut down.
This work is for couples and polycules who are willing to look at the patterns they’d rather avoid — and open to examining their own role in what's happening.
All partners must be emotionally safe to engage in joint therapy.
This practice does not offer individual therapy.
Sessions are private pay.
Intake Session
75 minutes
$300
Standard Session
60 minutes
$250
Extended Session
90 minutes
$400
Superbills available upon request for potential out-of-network reimbursement.
If you’re ready to look at what’s happening between you,
we can start there.
The consultation is a space to talk through your dynamic and get a sense of whether this work fits your relationship.
Schedule a consultationAfter the call, you’ll know exactly whether and how we’d move forward.
No pressure. Just clarity.